Final Remarks

When I wrote the three words "finished the book", it was as if a heavy burden was lifted off my shoulders, and I felt much more relaxed.

As early as the beginning of the year, I said in the group that I would finish the book during the World Cup.

So it is not too hasty to put an end to the story here. Although there are many regrets and some holes that have not been filled, I can only apologize to everyone here.

Due to family changes, the writing of this book was quite bumpy, and I had no time to write the book during that period.

So I am very satisfied that I can finish the book smoothly without a bad ending or eunuch.

Let me report the results to everyone. The average subscription of this book once reached more than 4,200, and then it continued to decline. In October last year, because I had to intervene and accompany Doudou, I could only write at night every day. The time was really limited. After being forced to reduce the update, the results have been declining all the way, and now it has fallen to about 3,300 average subscriptions.

Fortunately, it did not fall below the bottom line of 3,000 average subscriptions for boutiques, which can be regarded as barely keeping the bottom pants (laughing and crying)!

To be honest, I didn't expect such a result when I started the book.

I used to write military articles in the war abroad. Because of the censorship, several of my books were banned one after another. I couldn't stand it anymore, so I came to Dian Niang to write sports articles. So I can be considered a latecomer.

I am a complete novice in sports articles, so my psychological expectations were not high at the beginning, and I didn't expect to achieve such results.

Although compared with those great and veteran authors on Qidian, my results are nothing.

But for me, it is a very satisfactory result.

I would like to thank everyone for their support here, and thank you for your help and encouragement during the lowest period of my life.

Last year, Doudou was diagnosed with autism and my mother was hospitalized for heart disease. I couldn't hold on for a while and felt that the whole world had collapsed.

At that time, many enthusiastic readers comforted and encouraged me, and some people joined the group to introduce experts in autism to me, and guided me on how to effectively intervene in my children at home, etc.

I bow to everyone here to thank you very much!

If it weren't for you, I really don't know how I would have survived that low period.

Let me report Doudou's condition here!

Since he was diagnosed with autism in June last year, he has been doing intervention in the Dami Xiaomi organization.

He has four classes every day, two sensory training classes and two comprehensive training classes.

The sensory integration course mainly trains sports. His muscle tension is very low. He is tired and cannot stand for long. He is always used to leaning on things such as doors, beds, and sofas. He can't jump, and he can't run fast. His body balance and motor skills are very poor. At first, he didn't even dare to swing on the swing.

After nearly a year of intervention, he has made great progress.

His muscle tension has improved a lot, and now he feels more muscles on his body. When I hold him, he is not as soft as before.

In terms of sports, he can jump now, although he can only jump a little bit and his jumping posture is also very strange, but the strength of his legs can finally support him to jump.

His mother often takes him to play the game of jumping circles. He used to step on the circle every time, but now he can jump into the center of the circle without stepping on the circle. He has made a lot of progress.

Doudou can climb now. He likes to climb up the net-shaped slope outside the community. Last time when his mother took him to the playground, he dared to climb the rock climbing in the playground, which really surprised me.

In addition, when I took him to participate in the kindergarten's spring outing some time ago, I found that he couldn't catch the frisbee or kick the ball.

So I took him to play football during this period. He didn't know how to kick at the beginning and didn't dare to lift his feet for fear of falling. Now he can lift his feet and stand on one leg to kick the ball out. He has made a lot of progress.

Doudou likes to play football very much. He pesters me to play football every day. He plays football whenever he has free time. I will insert some other sports in the process of his playing football, such as picking up the ball and throwing it to him, to train his prediction and reaction ability.

He couldn't catch the ball at first, but now he can catch the ball slowly.

However, his reaction speed and prediction ability are still very poor. If the ball is thrown a little off, he can't catch it. Basically, he can catch the ball while standing still and his feet can't move.

But compared with before, there is still a lot of progress.

In November last year, Doudou started to go to kindergarten.

Although he can only go to the small class, it is still a good start.

I just don’t know if he can be promoted to the middle class this year. After all, he is almost five years old. The small class is full of children who are more than two years old or even less than two years old. He is too big and it will be difficult for the teacher to stay there.

But compared with normal children, even two-year-old children, Doudou has obvious gaps in cognition, behavior, emotional management and language communication.

But compared with him last year, he has made a lot of progress now.

His mother and I have already recognized the reality that the child with this disease cannot recover to the state of a normal person.

We don’t expect a miracle, we just hope that he can learn more and master as many skills as possible.

In this way, he can survive in the future when his mother and I are gone.

I'm not afraid of you laughing at me when I say this. Although I'm still a long way from death, what I'm most worried about these days is what will happen to Doudou after I die.

I watched "Ocean Heaven" starring Jet Li and Wen Zhang some time ago. Xincheng made many efforts to help Dafu survive.

For every parent with a child with autism, this state is probably a true portrayal of their inner thoughts!

Doudou is very busy now. He has to get up at 7:30 every morning to go to kindergarten, and go to the institution for intervention in the afternoon. He is so busy that it makes people feel distressed.

In the afternoon, Doudou often feels sleepy and then upset, but there is no way, he must go to kindergarten and the institution.

In kindergarten, he can interact with other children more, which can help him integrate into the group and let him imitate the behavior of other children. These are more effective than our adults teaching at home. Of course, bad things can be learned faster (laughs), and there are more children in kindergarten, and Doudou gets sick more often. He has caught a cold countless times since he went to kindergarten...

I seem to have been mumbling a lot, and it's almost two o'clock in the morning without knowing it.

As for the new book, it should still be about football. I plan to start with the 2005 World Youth Championship as the background. I am currently in the stage of searching for information. If nothing unexpected happens, the book will be published around May 15th. I hope everyone can support it at that time. Thank you all in advance!

PS: I don’t rule out using the summer vacation to go to Luzi to open a military book to earn some extra money. The recent economic pressure is too great. The intervention fee for the second half of the year is about to be paid. After a 18% discount, it will be more than 80,000...

Doudou’s intervention fee is an average of 15,000 per month. Counting the mortgage, rent, living expenses, transportation expenses and kindergarten tuition, the monthly expenditure is more than 25,000.

I really can’t bear it. I burned a small half of the money I saved last year. At this rate, I will have no money next year... (End of this chapter)