Chapter 351 Mountain Climbing
Under the bright sunshine, the blue sea, and the white sand, the two sat casually side by side, the girl rested her head on the boy's shoulder, quietly looking into the distance, in the eyes of others, they were also a landscape.
However, Jin Ling and the others were reluctant to destroy such a harmonious, quiet, timeless, and somewhat fresh and enviable scenery, which was broken after a while. Wearing a pair of newly bought sandals, Huihui shouted "Peace "Brother" ran over, and my uncle and aunt stood on the wooden road beside the beach, "My dad is coming soon, we are going to the airport, Huihui said that he is looking for a beautiful sister, so I will leave him to you."
"Okay, don't worry, I will take good care of him."
Huihui sat on his lap and asked Huang Jingping who had just been awakened by him, "Sister, shall we go build a castle?"
"Okay!" Huang Jingping stopped looking at the sea, took his hand, and walked towards the wetter beach ahead.
Such a well-behaved and fan-like little guy, who also knows a few things, is already cute, but he deliberately made it even more cute, so cute, no girl can resist it.
However, the level of the two of them building castles is really a mess, and Feng Yiping, a master who peed and played with mud when he was a child, is still needed.
The three of them worked together, and finally made a passable thing, similar to a beacon tower on the Great Wall. At this time, Huihui's interest shifted again. He just dug out a shell in the sand. Now he lowered his head, Looking for shells on the beach with your little butt!
Huang Jingping mischievously wiped Feng Yiping's arm a few times, looked at the lovely Huihui over there, and asked a question, "Do you like boys or girls?"
I don't know if she was thinking about the future, or because she was influenced by the two small arguments at noon, and now she is asking such a question.
"This is actually not a problem for me. Whether it is a boy or a girl, I like it. But two people start a family, it is not a matter of two people. Considering the opinions of adults, I think that if the first one is a boy, That's better, don't you think?"
"I hope so too." Huang Jingping looked at him and smiled.
What Feng Yiping said is the truth, and Huang Jingping, who grew up in the countryside, can also understand it.
Although family planning is taken very seriously, and in some places it can even be said to be very brutal, slogans such as "Both boys and girls are the same, and daughters are passed on to future generations" can be seen everywhere in the village below, including what Mei Qiuping said just now. , It is as good as a son and a daughter, but in rural areas, there are still many people who hope that there will be a boy in their offspring.
It doesn't matter if it's a young couple, but the parents must.
For example, Mei Qiuping, she is very satisfied with Huang Jingping now, but if Huang Jingping and Feng Yiping get married smoothly, and the first child is a daughter, then their relationship will definitely be affected, Huang Jingping Parents will also be a little disappointed, and Huang Jingping will feel pressured.
If the second one is a daughter, then the conflict will definitely become public, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will definitely not be harmonious.
Regarding this point, Huang Jingping, who has only one younger sister, has a deeper understanding than Feng Yiping, so she also agrees with Feng Yiping's truth.
There is really no such old concept of discrimination or patriarchy here, but in the present and in the next few decades, the reality is the same, and the country's efforts cannot change it, and Feng Yiping can't change it.
"It cannot be said that our elders have outdated concepts. We must understand them. They have always been in the countryside. In fact, the issue of family inheritance is not very important now. The key is the issue of old-age care. For a long time now and in the future, these people in rural areas Old man, when he can't do anything, he can only rely on his son to take care of him, don't you think so!"
"Yes, you don't need to say more, I understand."
Many people say that rural people insist on having a son, they say they are ignorant, backward, and old-fashioned. In fact, they really didn’t put themselves in the peasant’s shoes. After more than ten years, the society is generally richer than it is now. At that time, even in the cities where they were born with benefits and covered the old-age system, some old people’s old-age care became a problem. For those old people in rural areas who have no sons, what can they rely on for old-age care?
By the government? More than ten years later, the highest subsidies in rural areas are those extremely poor households, with an average per capita of less than 100 yuan per month. By society? A load of rice, a few baskets of vegetables, it’s okay for the neighbors to help out occasionally. After a long time, who still has the heart?
By daughter? This is more reliable. But even if there is a loyal son-in-law, the daughter-in-law still has old people to support. In the countryside, if your parents are still alive, it is impossible to bring your parents-in-law to your home to support them, unless you don’t want to live a peaceful life.
There are quite a few things like this that cause discord between husband and wife because of their parents' problems, which happen in rural areas.
So just like the eldest brother of the Erbo family, the rural people who must have a son are actually based on very realistic considerations.
From this point of view, for the national policy of family planning, the ones who make the biggest sacrifice are once again those farmers who have had a hard time and are always at the bottom of the food chain.
Feng Yiping joked, "Why don't we prepare to have one now, and give birth to a class while we are young. I also heard that in the south of Caiyun, a county on the Tropic of Cancer is rich in twins, and there is a twin well there. If you drink the well water there, you can give birth to twins, why don't we go and live there for a while, okay?"
Feng Yiping ran while talking, because Huang Jingping blushed and threw sand on him. What was annoying was that Huihui, who didn't know it, also stood by her side and sprinkled sand on Feng Yiping.
From a young age, this guy must be the kind of person who forgets his parents when he sees a beautiful girl in the future.
"Huihui," someone called out from the side, and finally liberated Feng Yiping. It turned out that Lao Cai had arrived, looking at her with a smile.
"Grandpa," Huihui yelled and ran over. Huang Jingping couldn't bully Feng Yiping now, so she gave him a look and went to say hello to Lao Cai. They had met Lao Cai during the summer vacation in Shenzhen, and they were considered acquaintances.
"What did you do wrong?" the uncle asked him with a smile.
Feng Yiping felt wronged, he really didn't do anything wrong!
At three o'clock in the afternoon, as Zhou Xinyu arrived with his wife, everyone finally gathered. There was another activity this afternoon, to climb the Phoenix Ridge in the city.
It is the highest peak in the urban area, and it is the highest point where you can see the whole city. Watching the sunset there is also unique.
Because it is located in the urban area, it has been turned into a park long ago. The facilities are very complete. There is a cable car up the mountain, which is very convenient.
But the company's arrangement is that everyone will climb up the mountain today by the one-meter-wide mountain road with few pedestrians. After resting on the mountain, they will go down the same road and return to the hotel for dinner.
To put it bluntly, this is actually a group activity. Many of the management of the company are not familiar with each other. For example, Jin Ling, who will be the general manager, is familiar with Feng Yiping, Zhou Xinyu and Gao Zhiyi, and he is familiar with Feng Yiping, Zhou Xinyu and Gao Zhiyi. Others, including my uncle, spoke little.
Feng Yiping wanted to use this method to let everyone get in touch, so that the head office's team would not feel like they were dropped out of nowhere.
He originally wanted to find an outreach training camp, but outreach training is not very common now, and he has found a few, but the programs in it are only for those young people who have just joined the job, and it is not suitable for Feng Yiping's team.
The original arrangement was that Lao Cai and his grandfather would stay in the hotel, but in the end, not only Lao Cai disagreed, but also his grandfather did not agree. Lao Cai said, "I haven't planned to retire yet, I just want to spend time with young people like you." Stay together more."
Grandpa said, "A mountain of more than 400 meters, is that a problem? The mountain I usually go to chop firewood is higher than it."
Yes, let's go together!
ps: In the first season of school, I took my son to the kindergarten today, and was dragged by him to run a lap on the standard runway of the elementary school next door, which was only 400 meters, and it was jogging, and the running distance was the same as the previous 1,500 meters Just like the exam, my throat was dry like Sahara, my legs were weak when I walked, and I felt like I was floating. And for the first time in my life, I clearly felt that it is better to wear sneakers even if I am running like this. At that time, I felt a little sad. Is this really not young? I really miss the days when a pair of shoes and bags could go around the world.